Today I slipped up and texted H about something I didn't need to. While I know it came across pursuing, it did give me the opportunity to tell him I was proud of him for something. We texted a bit about our dog, and there were moments where I know I would have previously responded with something angry or critical, but I kept the entire thing light.
It sounds like his business is expanding. I am proud of him, but this is also difficult for me because I supported him as he was getting it off the ground, and I thought I encouraged him, but he can now convince himself that he's only doing better because he got rid of me. I am also sad because this would have been a really good thing for our marriage and partnership, but of course that's over now. He left just as everything was about to change for the better.
I signed up for a jewelry class next week. +1 for GAL.
Me: early 30s Husband: early 30s Married 3 years, together 6 No children
ILYBINILWY: 3/2015 He asks for divorce: 4/2015 Moves out for good: 5/2015 I start the divorce process 8/2015