The problem is that I'm still a Full-time mom with no income of my own. My only account is our shared account. He's not going to throw me on the street, so I'm not super concerned about money (only that I'll be able to make enough on my own, when the time comes)
I know I do need an account of my own, but I can't really open one till I have some money to put in it.
I'm going to see if I can get a CC while we're still married, so I can use our household income to obtain it. That way I can start to build up credit in my own name.

Do we have any success stories on the board of walk away spouses with love affairs who actually came back to their families?