Stop snooping, there is really no point to it, you are pushing her further away and hurting yourself in the process.
Do what you must to DETACH!!!! MANDATORY 911! Get off the rollercoaster. I know what we are going through is VERY hard but we can do it together!
They have moved on and so must we!
Hang in there brother, I TRULY feel your pain, keep praying, keep praying and keep praying but also stop looking for things that will only make matters worst for yourself.
"He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death, or mourning, or crying or pain, the old order of things has passed away"