5th month since finding out

[Mona52]

Unbelievable job quitting drinking and smoking! I quit smoking in January, but as soon as I kicked him out, I used that as an excuse to smoke again. I allowed myself a month of ciggs and just quit them again a week ago. So I understand how crazy it can make you, and you calmness through the stress is amazing.

It's funny, my 180 is to grab a few beers now and then. Yours is to walk away from beer. You will hear most wise people on this board stress staying away from alcohol, so they will definitely help you if you feel the need.

I think you are doing a great job. I would suggest you stop trying to figure out what she is thinking or why she is saying something. It will only drive you batty.