O - I totally agree with Azz's revised post. If you were dependent before then it is a 180 for you to handle things on your own now. I on the other hand was too independent before so I do the opposite. If my S4 was as sick as your D3 last night then I would have texted "FYI S is very sick, may have to take him to the doctor". That is it. A very formal FYI type of message. Now that I have started doing that it usually sparks a convo with H when before I would get nothing from him. I am only telling you this because you will begin to see that these little changes will make a difference. It is okay that you messed up this time. You won't next time and that is important. Even if you do, try, try again. You got this! Being a single Mom is the hardest thing I have done but also the MOST rewarding.


Me:33 H:36
T:13 years
M:10 years
S4
Separated 05/15
H Filed 06/15