Wife moved out and filed for divorce

[PigPen]

I mean if I keep waiting next thing I know we will be divorced.

Here is my take on this.

I truly believe that the LBS will have the
final say in the outcome of the relationship.
If this has not happened yet for you then it is
not yet THE END!

I've grappled with this thought for my entire DB experience Cadet. Some days I believe it and understand it. Some days I don't. You've even expounded upon it for me. It's like the sound of one hand clapping...the answer is in there somewhere it's just hard to grasp.