I have refrained from posting here for a while,

My life has changed quite a lot in the last seven weeks in terms of just being me.

STBX has emailed with some petty finance issues such as me not paying the bills whilst I was at the house in the 7 weeks of the summer holidays, said his food bills goes up when DS is at home and I should contribute to that too. Felt very disappointed at this email. Opened my eyes to how mean spirited he has become.

I can see myself moving forward without him more and more.

However, can not help but think of the reasons why he is trying to rile me in this way.


Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18
EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13
Move to work abroad Sept 14
re establish contact with OW while away
D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15