Cause if something like this happened and I really had to and not tell him at that moment he might say why didn't you tell me or get mad at me. Idk!!!

Me 34 H 33
Married 2006
S5 D2
BD Jan 2015 EA/PA
He moved out 2/2/2015
Came back 5/2015
Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015