Hi Shodan, you may find it helpful to read Caliguy's thread in MLC. He and his W have been piecing for a number of months now and he regularly posts about how that is going.

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus