Anybody? I'm at a loss right now. Don't know if I should give up completely. They're in love. Enough to leave their respective marriages and kids. What do I do know? Should I let him know I know about his rendezvous with her last weekend? Better not.
Gmum - No, definitely dont let him know that you know. All that will do is cause him to change his password and cut off that line of intel for you. Confrontation by itself is just going to move the A deeper underground.
As for what you should do, thats difficult to answer. It depends what your goals are. If your goal is to save your M, then Im not really sure this changes much. My W and OM are dating now, and both are in D proceedings. Whether theyre "in love" or not, who f'in knows. Doesnt really matter. Given enough time, the pressures of the A and their R will likely get to them. But until my goals change, then I will continue the DB path.
