Sunny - you know what? He hasn't given me any "why" other than "we grew apart" "I'm not there anymore". That's all he has to say ever on the subject and told me that he has nothing else to say to me on the matter. That's it. That's all I have to go on. A part of me wishes he had complaints, specific complaints. I am walking in the dark here.
My STBX said he was "moving in a different direction". I'll never understand why it was OK for half of a married couple to "move in a different direction" without consulting the other. But, that's the why pit again.
Ep, we are probably never going to understand. So be it. A friend of mine who just broke up with his girlfriend likened it to a math problem with one correct answer but more than one way to solve it. If you get to the same answer, does it really matter how you got there?
