The other thing I want to say is that at some point I realised my own desires and impulses were not going to serve me well in trying to save our M. By those I mean the impulse to talk to H, tell him I love him, hug him, hold his hand, tell him we could work this out.
I realised that the wealth of experience on this forum, the knowledge of those who have been through this and MWDs own wise approach were going to be the way to go. Those were much more likely to save our M than what I sensed. So, I decided to suspend my own judgement and follow DBing to a tee.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
