A new thread for Eye-Tie

[EyeTie]

Spent a few hours today with the WW. We laughed, joked, went shopping and did some house work at the old house. When I first got to the old house she was in a mood, so I gave her a hug. While hugging her she said "Ok, that's enough, I am going to start crying..." This house was our dream home, it was where we planned to grow old together and now it's empty and about to be put up for sale. I just said "I get it, maybe a good cry is what you need..." and she followed with "I don't cry anymore, I spent years crying about my life, now I am happy!" and said it with such conviction that I ALMOST believed her.

At one point she poked me and I chased her around the house, jokingly. I caught her and she was against the door, her hands grabbed mine above her head and I stared in her eyes. For a few seconds I was about to move into a kiss (which she was expecting), instead I let her go and backed up.

Soon after that, she got into it with me about me separating things. Meaning, she isn't invited to the Birthday party for my daughter, holidays with my family, etc. She wasn't amused by this, but I refuse to let her be a cake eater. So while she was in another room I left without saying a word.

Everyone who knows her or us says that she is conflicted, that she is upset about me dating someone (even though she has a BF) and that it's all becoming so much more real to her.