Going out to watch football tonight. I have really been trying to implement "let her go", GAL and detaching. I go out with friends a couple times a week and I don't tell her where I'm going, who I'm with or what I'm doing. I have also stopped saying good bye when I leave the house unless she is standing right there.
The one thing I wonder about is I reclaimed the MB on Tuesday night. I wonder if she'll take the kids in there and sleep in there tonight. That will fill up the bed and not leave room for me. It wouldn't surprise me since I won't be home until late. Hmmmm......do I try to move the kids over and slip into bed anyway? Is that standing up for myself and enforcing the boundaries I set or am I being a jerk?
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place