You're still going for meals together? Wow, I'd give my right arm for that. I think she's 'cake eating' to a degree here - correct me other DB's if you think I'm wrong.
As I see it, she's taking the best of what Ghost has to give, money, food,etc. but not having to give anything back in return. That's not healthy is it?
I think you have to start developing a harder shell to all this and do a little less together. Remember what is in DB and sandi2's rules - be a bit mysterious!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015