Little by little you need to be unavailable to her. You need to get out if the house or too busy right now to watch XYZ. You chose the best balance.

You have a choice. Do you want to make the transition period as comfortable as possible for ye both and make the most of your tine "together" before there is none. If this is your choice, you are on track. If you want to improve your chances of having a R with W later and if you want to be better prepared for the next bomb and it's afteraffects,you need to listen to what you have been advised and what you have intended doing for a while now.

Plus you have confirmed W is WW. I am no specialist but sandi is adament that you cannot nice a WW back.

Good luck


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together