Very confused.
Our mediation is scheduled for next week but I have not seen any evidence that my wife has signed the contract or made her half of the payment. This stuff was due end of last week and I took care of mine but it will be cancelled if she didn't send her stuff in.

Last night my W asked for our 2014 tax records and this morning I noticed the paperwork for our house was missing from the desk. I'm assuming she is collecting information for our mediation next week. However, before she started her A we were looking into installing new carpet in the house. Last night she stated she would like to install the carpet because she can not stand our old carpet and asked when Home Depot would be doing their 2 year 0% interest financing again. Why in the world would she want to install new carpet when our D could be finalized in about 10 weeks? I know in our state all property is split equally and even if she wanted to keep the house she would need to buy me out of it. Not only can she not afford to buy me out but she could not afford the current payment.

Any advise on mediation or what in the world she might be thinking would be greatly appreciated.


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place