To all my DBustimg friends you truly have been the best support that I could ask for I kniw I have to get into the moment .

I know EXACTLY my problem and that is my W is still at home we are arround each other quite a lot of the time we still do plenty together today it was lunch at a small itialien two days ago we watched a movie on,TV ....we watch Tv box sets together several nights a week we do a family day out most weekends with the kids she cooks for me and the kids as I do for her and the kids I do my share of the house work

She is nice to me and I am nice to her we get along very well no intamacy no hugging no kissing

Do I feel detached ....No
Do we get along Yes
Is she going to insist the house is sold yes

I do not want to distance myself from my wife pull away .....stop doing this -^^^^^ But if I don't then BOMB DATE TWO WILL HIT and I have no idea how I will cope with this


So is it Posable to do the above whilst still distancing and detaching any idea

I thank you all ...I know I am not doing a great job of this but will keep trying to find strength

Ghost


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.