To all my DBustimg friends you truly have been the best support that I could ask for I kniw I have to get into the moment .
I know EXACTLY my problem and that is my W is still at home we are arround each other quite a lot of the time we still do plenty together today it was lunch at a small itialien two days ago we watched a movie on,TV ....we watch Tv box sets together several nights a week we do a family day out most weekends with the kids she cooks for me and the kids as I do for her and the kids I do my share of the house work
She is nice to me and I am nice to her we get along very well no intamacy no hugging no kissing
Do I feel detached ....No Do we get along Yes Is she going to insist the house is sold yes
I do not want to distance myself from my wife pull away .....stop doing this -^^^^^ But if I don't then BOMB DATE TWO WILL HIT and I have no idea how I will cope with this
So is it Posable to do the above whilst still distancing and detaching any idea
I thank you all ...I know I am not doing a great job of this but will keep trying to find strength
Ghost
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.