For sure, Huddy. I just didn't know she was here when I wrote about the birthday. I'm not sure they're in a relationship. She lives in a different state, has two kids and has broken up her own marriage as well while all this has been going on. They met on one of my ex' long work trips and I guess bonded over feeling trapped. They've been each other's emotional support through all this. But like ex said "this thing with her might not even work out as she lives in another state with her two kids that she loves more than anything and bla blah blah" I'm just devastated for them. 😒
