Ghost56 my W did the same to me as far as all of the negative comments and put downs but I believe it was all about her trying to control what I asked for in the divorce. She was attempting to keep me submissive and happy to settle for little of nothing in hopes of getting her back someday. It is so hard to do as Avanti says and disregard most of what they say.

Rouky I would drive your dog nuts with all the crap that I have to tell it. He would need Prozac at the end of the conversation :-) I'm going to take your advice and spend the day looking for the positive in my life and try to start digging my way out of this depression that I feel.

M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.