god talks to everybody, the trick is to learn how to listen...
And again you go overanalyzing the future. You do not know what the future will bring, so there is really no need to concentrate on the future. Take it one day at a time.
By now I would have figured you came to the conclusion that R talks do not work esp. if you initiate. You are not even a blip on your W's emotional radar, so talking will not work. You know what will? Steady, persistent action. Movement of the Ghost in the right direction. That will work, esp. for Ghost.
Re. your inheritance, I think that inheritance is not a subject to a divorce split, but I may be wrong, you would def. need to talk to a lawyer about that. While we are on the subject, have you gotten legal advice yet?
Time to get going buddy, you are still just stumping your feet, standing still and feeling sorry for yourself. I understand you, but it is not a healthy place to be. Get your a$$ in gear and move!
