Hey cczamo! I remember seeing your name quite often, and that we had some back and forth over the last couple of years. Thank you for posting - it made my day (also got one from 123Gwen). I never expected to hear from anyone. Turns out XH got married in May - they had to move it up so a family member could make it out for the big event. ACKK, they even registered for wedding presents!! Here she is doing very well financially with her real estate business, driving a BMW SUV, and him with his half of our home equity and they're both close to 50! Registering for silverware, bedsheets, place settings, knives,wine glasses, coffeemaker, etc...oh the list goes on - it was disgusting and embarrassing to see. So immature and selfish. Not like they were 22 with no money and nothing to call their own. Oh well, they deserve each other. I've come to think he is really just a, for lack of a better word, gold-digger. Looking back on things, I even think I was a victim. Some of my family members and friends feel the same way. I don't even want to talk to or see him anymore. I tried really hard to be 'grown up' and accepting of all this, but I now see him in a different light. I cannot be downgraded to 'friend' after being his wife, especially since this was not a mutual decision. So he's lost me for good. I just hope one day he realizes what he left behind once all the glitter of this relationship wears off. I hope she got a pre-nup (glad I did)- she's gonna need it.....
Me 59 H47 M12 T22 No kids BD&S Apr 2,2013 - ILYBINILWY Filed 2/12/14 OW 11/13 The Universe always strikes you at your weakest point because that’s what most needs strengthening." – Joseph Campbell