Originally Posted By: Ghost56
Ok I know this is cheeseless but I do not think I have ever asked this question ....I need to hear the answer to this for me to move on another step......as said above and SHE REALIZES YOU WERE NOT THE CAUSE OF HER UNHAPPINESS .......ok So what makes you think I was not the cause ...what if I was the cause of her upset


Ok and this ^^^^

I am happy to accept my part but she does not feel she was to blame
Just me not being there for her and the kids and not doing enough
We would,argue over silly things and she fell out of love with me


No. 32

Do not believe anything she says. And no mind reading. And of course she will be rewriting marital history. What did you think, she was going to own her $hit? Nope, she needs a scapegoat, and you can make 3 guesses who the scapegoat is in your situation...

and stop spinning your wheels, because you are driving yourself bananas.

Stay strong buddy...