Solo

You will never understand what WW is thinking or wanting. Until she tells you she wants back in, until she makes that choice and it will be very obvious to you if she does. It will then be your decision to say 'yes, and this is what I want' or 'no thank you'

It's clear she wants her cake and to eat it and that's what she is getting, a family life without the commitment. A plan B.

My point is that if you Solo work on you, if you resolve you, look forward to your future, take tender care of little boy that precious vulnerable child within you. Being a cake will not be enough, you will find yourself valuable in and of yourself. Then WW behaviour will be a boundary infringement.

You will I think shift from fear of abandonment to anger. There will be shift for Solo.

That isn't instant, that is why I believe the secret is healing and Solos love for Solo and his children. You are an amazing wonderful loving man.

Once there is shift, once Solo is strong in his love then cake crumbs will not be enough, he will turn to WW and say " if you want this substantial cheese cake, then you have to give up that fluffy empty sugary meringue"

Solo will stand for himself, his children and his view of M.

First I believe extraordinary self care and healing. Lots of love of Solo and his children and hugs I hope I mentioned those.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 10/01/15 01:17 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
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