V, to answer from my point of view about "his" and "her" children. I am pretty sure they each had children from other relationships? That is how I understood the sitch early on anyways... If I'm wrong, sorry!


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home