Anyone have an opinion on my upcoming anniversary?
Hey roiste great stuff dude!!!!! The work side, man I would not be surprised if I got fired - but somehow they still don't think poorly...they have given me some slack. Need to improve, yes!
Ok so the gift, do you want to give her a gift because you feel obligated? That whiffs of fear to stir things.
Do you want to give her a gift to show her how much you still love her and want some kind of sign back from her? Classic pursuit.
If you want to give a token because you love her and you are just pleased to give out of the gesture because it is a symbol of the marriage you are standing for...then give it a whirl. I would not give it too her directly, leaving for her to find after you've left for work with a short handwritten note would be fine...no expectations on ANY reciprocation, ok?