WAS's and WS's do speak in absolute negatives and you should not believe 100% of what they say and only 50% of what they do and that 50% is anything positive, which given how far you are in your sitch you probably aren't going to see for a while.
Do you want your W to have control over you? If the answer is no, she is saying such things to manipulate you, so let it go and when she sees you aren't being effected anymore by her saying them, she'll stop; plus she might get inquisitive, but don't bank on it there is only an outside chance. Is that tough to do? Yes. Is it easy on you? No. Should you do it? Yes.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
