Hi Shodan, it doesn't sound as though you did anything wrong and I was glad to read you had already told your W about the dating site and that you had closed the account.

But, I can see it must have been uncomfortable for your W and it is an example of a consequence of her actions coming home to roost I think.

As you say, you guys can talk it out. However, I think it is fair to let her know basically what you have posted and how you feel about it too. Yes, you may be sorry that she felt so uncomfortable - but I don't think you need to apologise for your actions.

She may want to let the friend know that you and she were going through a rough patch at the time.

Sorry, I'm not sure if this is much help. Hopefully someone will stop by with some more input for you. Best of luck with things and pleased to hear about the overall progress xx

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