Ghost, I am still living with H and its been 7 months and I am not sure if this is the best arrangement. Financially, yes, it has worked out, and yes , for childcare purposes it has its advantages. My thinking was that if I "let" him go he'd definitely hook up with OW and that would just get more intense. And if he was living with me I'd have the advantage of showing him all of the ways I changed.
But I am exhausted. Beyond exhausted. Lately I am feeling more and more like we'd be better off living apart.
