Thanks for the suggestions. The issue is I'm a foreigner here and I don't have any of my family here, only in-laws. The other issue is a budget of course...
But I'm more concerned about kids stability. Especially my older one (D3) She is definitely sensing that something is up and noticing H's increased absense. Of course kids don't know exactly what is going on, but I know they feel anxiety. This week when I went to my class at night, SIL watched them because H had to work. An old me would have cancelled the class, but I went this time. But when I picked them up, both of kids started crying and I felt so bad for them. They need me now more than ever since they feel things are not quite right.
So how does everyone handle GALing and parenting? I'm very torn about this right now...
