Checking in!! Thought I would check and let you all know I am still around. I don't have time to be on here much anymore. Work is crazy! Kids have LOTS going on! I am still working on me! I had to get away from the forums for awhile so I can focus on moving forward. Found a good forum about dealing with divorce. It is helping alot. I have been reading a ton!! Found an excellent post where betrayed spouses asked wayward spouses questions about affairs and what thoughts and emotions they had while they betrayed their family and spouse. It was very interesting. Really makes a person think. At one point I felt sorry my STBXW. But not sorry enough to reconcile. I am also seeing a IC. That is helping. Kids are doing well. D12 is doing really good. S7 still struggles some. He is young and misses his mom. I validate his feelings and try to find something fun to do when he gets upset. Other than that, just taking things day by day.
Lawyer is really slow getting the new papers filed. He said he is waiting to get a response from judge so we can amend separation to divorce and change the parenting plan. I wish this would get going a little faster. At least we have the separation papers filed and current parenting plan. I am still dealing with after math of STBXW financial mess. I think the deed in lieu is going through for the house. But now I am seeing collection bills show up that she has ignored. Not good. I would like to get the child support going so I can have a little help with something. She pays for nothing.
Well that is what is going on here. I will keep you all posted .
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
