Ghost, it's hard. It can be a battle. But this forum, the list, the books, etc can really help out in the long run. You have the tools to make it better, go for it!
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016