Falling forward, not back.

[beckyb]

BT, these are great insights and very similar to my situation, although H no longer actively blames me. We don't actually talk that much.

In weaker moments I think maybe I filed for a separation too quick, which pushed him to file for D. But he was preparing for it all along. And I had to set boundaries. You are doing the right thing. Don't let him mess with your head.

I have confesses my wrongdoing in the marriage to God and ask for his forgiveness. For me that is all that counts, although I have to keep reminding myself of it.

Walking and drinks with friends both bring great healing.