Lou, I'm glad he posted to you and shared his thoughts w/you. I'm glad you were able to share your thoughts as well. Hopefully, the communications will continue to be open and he'll feel comfortable enough to continue sharing w/you. Trust is a word that is strongly used when reconciling, just as being transparent is. He's going to have to get use to those two words if he wants to win you back. He's still in the healing stage and it appears that his IC is helping him quite a bit.
I do hope that you enjoy your vacation and can leave the MLC situation behind for just a bit. You need to relax, have some fun and just go w/the flow.
I think you are doing great!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.