I would love to go out however this is not totally straight forward my w and I have made an agreement that we would go out alternative Saturdays she as not been out for a while and the other person babysits so not much chance of going out.
V you say let it unfold ....I realise I have no control of what she does it just worries me,..... She is going out clubbing on Saturday and her friend is the not so good looking friend that the good looking one (my ww will be hanging out with)
I have no idea if she will go with our male friend as well so tbh I feel scared she will ......
[censored] it she is not treating me fair she is not the women I fell in love with she knows she has and is continuing to break my heart and she does not give a [censored]
I deserve better than this
Sorry for,cheese less tunnel it
She is detaching and I need to detach her doing this ...is probably her way of getting me to the point where I loose my feelings for her
How the heck can a couple that has been together for 25 years separate in June and three and a half months later ...why does it Feel she is so distant already.
I so want to go downstairs and have the "W please can we not just try and work this out conversation,...it does not have to be like this" but I cannot ( so I guess this is progress as three months ago I would have had the conversation
Ghost pull yourself together man it feels like One step forward three friking steps backwards
Ghost
The house is one thing. But your thoughts are another. All that stuff in bold is all such an incredible waste of your energy. All it does is spiral you downward.
My wife is going out --> who is she going with --> why doesnt she want to go with me --> why arent I good enough --> and so on down the tunnel...
You need to stop this at that first arrow. Look at the facts and detach from the emotions.
