People talk about partners turning arround after two or three years could we cohabit for this length of time
To be perfectly honest, I do not know of a case where the couples continued to live under the same roof were able to have a true reconciliation in their MR. It seems almost necessary to have that physical distance, and push the WS out of the nest to fly on their own.......and no further help from the LBS. After they go separate ways, and the WS has time to learn a few hard lessons, then we've seen reports where partners turn back. But staying in your house under the conditions you are in now? Are you crazy???
That house is going to be the death of you, if you don't turn lose and stop this going in circles about it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
