Hello.. im still here just been busy.. which is a good thing
Julie, so initially I thought life with my husband was over. I thought he was really done with us. However, we still cared very deeply about one another, we dont fight we get along great, very respective of one another and yes we continued to be intimate even tho I knew he was seeing someone else. He never said ilybinilwy to me but im pretyy sure thats wher he was at mentally.
We have a rental property and he moved in there in july. This has been since april for BD. He needed some time to figure things out, which I hated to have him go but know now its been for the best.
I started DB as soon as I found the website, again my version. I was always nice , looked nice smelled nice and yes I stopped daily contact with him. We would txt a little here and there but for the most part none. I GAL and didnt always answer or text back and I didnt make my self available. We did continue to make coffee here and there but I never stayed over and as soon as we were done I was like "see ya" and left. Never emotional about it. Ever. It was like thats all I wanted from him , at the time.
Lastly I never brought up the OW or our relationship and even today we havent had long lengthy talks about us. We both agree this is working for us right now. We see each other like were dating and typically sleep in our own beds. We still go a few days in between and on those days only a little texting here and there. Neither of us are in a hurry at this point.
Gotta go for now. Be back soon. Thanks for checking in V and P as well.
Married 1991 D 32 GD 12 D 30 GD 3 S 29 M 58 S 57 1st bomb 2008 2nd bomb 4/2015 same person New bomb 09/24 I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.
