Yes, you do deserve better. Let the house sell. You can't carry on like this. Having been through this now for six months, I believe that in house separations are not in the best interests of the R going forward as I don't think your other half can see loss. That, I think, is the best lesson I've had.
Don't do the 'can we work it out' conversation. Let it go for now.
Dark days ahead Ghost. You need to turn on the light.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015