Parents: help me parenting while separated (2)

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Just a few things I've noticed about your recent sitch.

"Being passive will only increase this feeling of being violated and disrespected."

In what way have you been "passive"? That's just a matter of opinion. You fought for your marriage so you weren't passive. You fought for what you believe in.

What I've seen in your posts is that although you say that you "understand" your W, and what got her here, your words say otherwise.

MrBond, when I mention that being passive makes me feel violated I am referring to a specific event, not to my general DBing.
My STBXW is moving out tomorrow. Since she is not working, until we get divorced I will be financing her escape from the conjugal home and her new life outside of the marriage.
Both of us were thinking about filing for divorce only at the end of December, when we will be flying to our home country for Christmas.
But I realized I cannot stand this situation so I have to speed up the divorce filling. It has nothing to do with saving some money, it has to do with the unbearable reality of me financially supporting a stranger that fired me.
Being passive was just a reference to waiting for December.