LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M

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And time for another question. W had been seeing her own counselor who was our M counselor several years ago. I know her counselor has recommended for W to see a psychologist for a full evaluation to eliminate the possibility of any underlying issues that may be causing additional tension in our R. W has refused so far. She states that she believes there isn't anything wrong with her. I also know her counselor is doing individual counseling with the goal of R. Both of these things were stated by the counselor in an email to us. She was going once a week but has not gone for the last 2 weeks. My question is......I believe she has not been going because she split our bills and she is struggling financially. If I am using "let her go" and "tough love" techniques would I hurting my strategy by offering to pay for her sessions?