11 please take the time to read and consider, it is going to be very difficult for amazing vets like MrBond to help you and supporters like V to reflect and empathise.
The basics such as Sandis 37 guidelines were my mantra, I laminated them and carried them around with me. I have read both DB and DR at least once a month. That's 15 times in the time I have been DB, there is still much to learn.
I know I am not unusual in this.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW