Originally Posted By: 4mykid
I am at Ex's house D4 asked to go have lunch with him so I took her out and sat in the car and read some more of CD workbook. I was again short with him in my answers and it frustrates him not what I want. So a few of my goals for today are
1. Make dinner WITH D8
2. Give her two genuine hugs
3. Give her 3 compliments today
4. I will choose to lot lose my patients with her or be short with her today
5. While she is at dance tonight I will go for a walk for at least 15 minutes
6. I will complete one activity from CD workbook
7. I will play one game with D8 tonight
8. I will be up beat and have light convo with ex when he gets home ask how his day was ect! No reason to be distant or short!


I absolutely love these goals, the way they are stated, positive, accountable and delightful.

4my what a beautiful wonderful positive set of goals.

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW