Sorry you are going through a rough time... but I think you would have these thoughts regardless? I can't imagine a situation where I wouldn't second-guess my decision at *some point* - but you filed for a reason, right? Can you review those reasons?

Maybe I'm a little dense, but I'm not getting what the convo with the L was about... confused

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17