I was overly critical before. I stopped that. I'm working hard on changing myself, not just for him, but for myself.

Money is a HUGE reason I'm in this mess. I'm being responsible with what I spend and on what - only buying necessary things like food etc. I told him I'm working on a budget for when we have two households as we have to split his income until I can start working.
I told him I want to leave this apartment asap, so we can save money and so I can start to move on.