I think exchanges like the above... They get caught off guard and the knee jerk reaction is to get defensive and resort to their "go to" which is the divorce card. I think at this point your W knows you are pro marriage... Otherwise it would be you who is pushing for that .... She went there because she did not see this coming, retorted she isn't getting enough to for S14 in an effort to keep things status quo... Good for her ... I wouldn't beat yourself up for the pro marriage stuff. Let her sit and marinate with this new change that is about to happen and see where she goes with it
