Sotto, I'm very sorry to come here and read about your news. I agree w/Lou about the sorting out where you stand financially and it will most definitely allow you to plan for the future.
Even though this door is slowly closing, another one is opening up to you. You have the power to plan your next move and know that you've done everything possible to fight for your marriage.
This chapter in your book of life isn't finished, but it is time to take up the pin and begin to write your new one. I look forward to reading how this new chapter is unfolding.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
