I am in the beginning of working on a separation agreement. I am waiting on W to deliver to me what she believes she will want to include in it. I have not done anything on this and just waiting. I did ask her about it and told her it should get done because it has gone too long. I also said other things that were setting some boundaries. I still do not want this, but at the point i am is that i am getting tired of being taken advantage of and needed her to know it is not ok anymore. I have informed her my intentions about not leaving the house and pending what we work out i will try to keep it for the sake of the children. So i guess my advice is be strong in what you feel you want and know is right, but be empathetic to her and fair.
Wish i could give more as i am lost also.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15