Wife moved out and filed for divorce

[Cadet]

I mean if I keep waiting next thing I know we will be divorced.

Here is my take on this.

First of all most of our marriages were over the moment we had bomb drop.
It takes us a while to understand this.

Yes we want to contact and try desperately to control the
outcome when in reality it was out of our control a long time ago.

STOP WAITING and start moving forward.
STANDING is NOT still.

This has more to do with looking in the mirror and
making changes to ourselves and becoming the person
that only a fool would leave.

It is NOT about contacting our spouse and
trying to guilt them back into the marriage.

I truly believe that the LBS will have the
final say in the outcome of the relationship.
If this has not happened yet for you then it is
not yet THE END!