Hey otw,

I know what you mean, just the fact that my W sees no value in our marriage, that she is going ahead with writing up separation agreement and doesn't want to work on the M is messed up. She is saying this is best for the kids??

Its all WW behavior. That is the best explanation.

Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016