Am I crazy?! Please help me think this through! The more reading and learning I do, the more this whole situation is so unnecessary. If my H truly woke up and did decided he did not want D he would say so and stop it, right? I feel as though I let my self fall into the abyss of acceptance and am trying to crawl back out in a panic.
It's official. I have lost my mind.
I just wanted to say I feel the same way. I also filed, because he told me unequivocally the marriage was over, and I was tired of waiting for him to do it. But I do feel our marriage could have been repaired, and this whole thing was unnecessary.
Filing did help me stop begging for a reconciliation, so it gave me some strength in a way. Since he wanted to speak about ending our marriage in absolute terms, I have responded in kind. I can't be married to a man that speaks about our marriage that way.
Me: early 30s Husband: early 30s Married 3 years, together 6 No children
ILYBINILWY: 3/2015 He asks for divorce: 4/2015 Moves out for good: 5/2015 I start the divorce process 8/2015
